Mirrored with permission from Outpost Nine and Azrael

Show Me The Honey!

One of the downsides of being a gaijin in a small Japanese town is that you stand out. A lot. And Japanese people love to gossip. Seriously, it's one of the only things they actually can do (the suckosity of Japanese TV has been covered in-depth). So anytime you leave the house, you bet your bottom dollar there's at least one pair of eyes on you at all times, and the mouth connected to those eyes will relay the things you did to no less than two other people.

And especially for me, being black and so much bigger than all of them, it's a lot like playing "spot the whale" in a goldfish tank. Or, it's like "Where's Waldo?", if Waldo were a Pakistani Elephant sitting in a field full of sheep. Plus, being an English teacher, and having been in the town newspaper several times (as well as the Kyoto Shimbun twice now), everyone just knows who I am, and my daily events have become an integral part of the town chatter. As you can imagine, this makes having a private life somewhat difficult, to say the least.

Anyway, what all that useless and inane chatter above leads up to is - I brought a girl home one Saturday night.

And no, I'm not gonna get into that, let's just say Az Does Not Fail At Dating, the end. Sunday afternoon, we decided to take a walk in the town park, which is actually quite nice. However it's quite far from my apartment, so we'd have to go by bus. As we walked to the bus station, I warned her that from time to time I run into some of my students randomly, and if that happened today it could become sort of embarrasing. She laughed and said if we did run into any students, she'd do her best.

Poor girl just had no idea.

Upon approaching the station, I saw what I believed to be two sannensei girls sitting near the bus terminal. Deciding it best to lay low, I stopped well before the terminal, and took a seat, while waiting for the bus to come. The two girls eventually did notice me and my companion, and waved, but that was the extent of it. I figured we would probably be riding the same bus, but these two girls are pretty reserved. So we could just sit in separate sections of the bus, and while I'd have a firestorm of rumors to deal with when I went back to this school, at least my date would be spared from potential harassment. The bus came, and we boarded, me leading my date towards the back. The two girls also got on, but stayed near the front. For a moment, I almost, very nearly believed I'd get off easy this time.

............Nope.

Before the bus left, a gang of girls, mostly sannensei but with some ninensei and ichinensei thrown in for good measure, boarded the bus. And not just any girls either. The gossip queens. The girls you talk to if you want EVERYONE to know something. Because it would be faster than grabbing a megaphone and doing it yourself. It took them approximately 0.000639 seconds to spot me, and *gasp* a girl!, and from there the shit was on.

They rushed over to where we were sitting. "Is this your new honey?" one of them asks, actually using the "honey" word in English. Uh...well.... Yuki (from the Natsumi and Yuki editorial) also comes over. "Wow, she's a pretty girl! You're pretty cute, aren't you?" My date slides down in her seat a bit and pulls her hat over her head. "C'mon, show us your face!" Yuki asks. "Nuh-uh" is my date's response as she shakes her head. "Ah, it's a little embarrasing, isn't it?" Yuki admits. ...But she doesn't actually stop.

Meanwhile, there were two girls sitting outside who actually hadn't boarded this bus. I guess they were waiting for a different bus. Out of the corner of my eye, I caught one of the other girls go back towards the front of the bus, lean out the door, and say something to the effect of "Hey! Az-sensei's on this bus! With a girl!" The two girls then got up and walked over towards the window to get a good look. My date slides down in her chair even further.

The bus finally gets started. Yes, all this time it had just been SITTING there. I bet the driver could see what was going on, and decided to stall for as long as possible to give the girls maximum dirt-digging time. Yuki asks what we were going to do today. Well, that's not too bad of a question, right? I told her we were going for a walk in the park. "Ah, that's nice!" Yuki says. "And, what did you do last night?"

...Uh...that's not a question I'm gonna answer to a 15-year old schoolgirl. I'm already going to hell, but I'd like to at least keep the handbasket.

Meanwhile, a car going the opposite direction of the bus stops in the middle of the street, but after realizing that it's just my date's face and not a traffic light, so the driver moves on.

From here, I figure it would be best to try and deflect the questions away from me, so I asked the girls if they had any boyfriends. Most of them just kind of giggle and shake their heads, but I can tell it's the "we must lie to teacher so he doesn't scold us!" kind of thing. It was really funny/cute once, I was in the park and I happened to spot two of my students who'd come on a date. As soon as they realized I was there too, they started hiding behind things and making progress through the park by darting from tree to tree. I could have been evil and stopped, and said loudly "Hey! Hey, it's you guys! Oh, is that a date! Awwwwwww how cute!" but I know how hard dating is at the grade school level (and it doesn't get any easier) so I decided to pretend I didn't notice them.

I did snap a nice picture with my camera phone though. If either of them starts getting out of line, I've got blackmail material.

Anyway, back on the bus, Yuki admits to having a boyfriend. But she says things aren't going well. I asked her why not, and she said because of the age difference - he's older than she is. Now, I've lived in Japan for way too long. And I've seen the shadyness with my own eyes, young high school girls with an old-ass businessman on one arm and an expensive Louis Vitton bag hanging off the other. So when Yuki said he's older, I immediately panicked/despaired. I didn't see any expensive bags hanging off her arm. But she was in her school clothes. Maybe she doesn't use the bag with her school clothes. Maybe her sugar daddy pimp hadn't bought it for her yet. Maybe she was still working on it, like he had this sexual favors stamp card, and once she got 7 stamps then she'd get the bag. No, Yuki, no! Why? Noooooooooooooooooooo!

I asked Yuki how old he was. Sixteen, she says. ....................Whew! OH THANK GOD! Yuki notices the relief on my face, and asks why. "Oh, nothing. Nothing at all. Heh heh heh...ehhhh...."

I point out that 16 isn't that much of an age difference. But Yuki says that he's a high school student, and their worlds are very different so that's why it's not going so well now. Oh, I can understand that at least.

The deflection tactic worked for a little while...but then the heat was back on. "C'mon, show us your face! Please!" Yuki pleads. My date continues to hide under her hat. Yuki turns to me. "Bring us pictures next time you come to school!" Yeah, sure, I say, just to appease the masses, and then I feel a kick in my shin. I turn to look, and my date is still in the same position I saw her in, halfway in her chair, halfway on the floor. It must have been one of those space-warping smacks, like when Ms. Americanized smacked the boy who asked her if she was still a virgin. ...I wonder if I can learn how to do this, or if it's a trait unique only to Japanese women.

"Ah, that's nice!" Yuki says. "Good for you, Az-sensei. You always bring the cutest girls back here."

Another dimensional-warping kick to the shin. C'mon! I don't bring that many girls back here! ...Unfortunately. But I'm glad to see I have my students approval if I did. ...Or not.

Our bus stop FINALLY comes. I excuse myself and my date, with the girls still trying to get one last look at her face. "When you guys get married, please invite us to the wedding!" Yuki calls out.

...........SLOW THE FUCK DOWN! *MARRIED*?! THIS IS ONLY DATE NUMBER TWO.

Note to all you potential male Japanophiles out there - marriage is a big deal to a lot of Japanese women, and as such a lot of them tend to move kinda fast. I mean breakneck speed, GO SPEED RACER GO!! speeds. Be careful.

We get off the bus, and my students have all rushed to a window so they can try and get one last look at her as the bus drives off. With the kids now long gone, my date finally pulls her hat up from across her face. "Sorry about that." I apologize. "My kids are kind of...well...spirited." She kind of laughs it off. "It was difficult, but it's okay. Your students seem very energetic. I'm sure you must have a few interesting experiences with them."

....She has no idea.

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